Yes, those dreaded words. My hubby has been very supportive of me trying and trying again, cycling and cycling again...but there comes a time when we have to just stop, re-group and try again (down the road).He has supported me now its my turn to support his decision. We have suffered from insomnia, depression and anxiety just to name a few.
I have been the cheerleader this entire time, but when the cheerleader is down, then its time for half-time...(can you tell we are watching the playoffs. lmao). Hubby stressed to me please can we take a break...and i said to him "we are not QUITTERS" but he didnt say quit, he said LATER...i wish i listen better at times. I have selective hearing when it comes to Surrogacy, lol.
We have been busy (as always) with family, friends, work, SNOW (that wont stop coming) and football season, lol. I have been reading and watching everyone's stories and forum conversations, I am still there is the background but just need to take a back seat for a while.
ENJOY EACH OTHER, TAKE A GOOD LOOK AT LIFE AROUND YOU AND ENJOY THE MOMENT YOU HAVE RATHER THAN DWELLING ON WHAT COULD HAVE BEEN. THEN YOU ENJOY NOTHING BUT STRESS WANTING.
LOVE AND HAPPINESS FROM JERSEY- ALL THE BEST WITH YOUR JOURNEY'S IN 2011..
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Oh Mandy, how I wish you were coming with me for my next try. When you are ready to return to this, we will all be here ready to support you and send out love. I completely understand about taking a break. After our first loss, I had to take a major step back and just refocus on my life and marriage. Please keep in touch!!
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Sweet Mandy,
The Lord will honor you for honoring your husband's wishes by taking a break for a season. I can only imagine how stressful it must get when you eat, sleep, and breathe surrogacy.
I trust with all my heart that your time will. Like Daria said we will be waiting to support you to the home stretch. Please know my prayers for you will not take a break.
You know I am here for you, supporting you all the way. Take your time and try to get back to some shade of normal.
Sending you kisses and hugs, whatever you decide to do, whenever, we are all here for you. We all just want you to have your baby, and you will have your baby. Those that keep trying have babies.
xxxx
I like that. When the cheerleader is down it's time for half time. There have been many times I've felt like that! Hang in there. This will happen. Take care.
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