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Monday, October 26, 2009

Moving Forward...

Well, we have selected our surrogate and waiting confirmation. We tried to wire our enrollment fee and our bank sucks! They don't do wire transfers anymore, you have to do it online. What!?! So we got home and we thought it was like our E-Billing, um NOT! Things were not matching up, it wouldn't let us put our own info (like the swift code and address in India) it would select one for us!)..but we emailed the docs and will try again.

I feel like this 2nd time is giving us more problems with the easy stuff (i hope these aren't signs..)

Selection Process of our Surrogate:
we really didn't know what to look for but we went according to height, weight and age. We didn't base it on looks or anything like that but we did also look at how many children she had and we felt the more recently she had a baby the better. So that was our reasons and lets hope and pray this works out for all of us so we can help her provide the life she wants for her family and as us. We don't have a plan B and hubby says after this try we will have to wait 3 years before trying again...i disagree and we're not seeing eye to eye on that, but lets hope we dont haev to go down that road...lets think POSITIVE (so hard when u had a negative and funds are so low).

5 comments:

Rhonda and Gerry W said...

CONGRATS! Everything is moving along...you will be back in India before you know it! YAY!!!!

Doug and Bill said...

I know exactly how you feel. I couldn't be more anxious to wire thousands of dollars off to a foreign country, to a place I'd never been before, for services that hadn't even been rendered! Ours took one week to arrive in the clinic's account and I was flippin' out. Be calm. It will all work out...India style!

Sending good thoughts to you guys.

Unknown said...

This is great progress Mandy! Soon you will be back in India with positive thoughts in your pockets!

Mandy said...

Thanks guys! all the positive attitudes help and your stories as well!!

i always think we are the only ones that go thru this mess sometimes..lol..

Sarah Andrews said...

Hi Mandy:

Thanks for your comment on my blog today.

That's awesome that you have made your choice! Another step closer which is another huge milestone!